Self love all 2019 and beyond…

2019 I am aiming to raise my dating standards… I’M DONE SETTLING, PERIOD. Unfortunately we seem to have dropped our standards of what a relationship or someone being interested in you constitutes. If something has to be forced, then it’s probably not authentic. Not only do I not want to settle for the bare minimum,…

When the butterflies fade, love is a choice.

I’ve heard people say that real love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person. It’s true. When all the butterflies have fluttered away and the beginning of your relationship becomes a distant memory, you will discover that you’ve committed to someone who is just as imperfect as you. And they, in turn, will come…

Millennial dating misconceptions…

This is a post I’ve been nervous to share for awhile. It’s literally been sitting in my drafts waiting to see the light of day, so here is the shine it’s been longing for. This is actually going to be quite long, I wouldn’t bother reading if I’m a lazy reader. Definitely worth it though……

The naked truth about long distance relationships:

I don’t consider myself a relationship expert or whatever, but I have learned a lot from my experiences especially when it comes to long distance relationships since all serious relationships I’ve been in went long distance at some point. Get ready for yet another LONG post but this time it’s about long distance relationships. How…

Love yourself first…

To say that love hasn’t obeyed my expectations would be the understatement of the century. I have not been lucky in love but—I’ve been blessed with some amazing memories over the years. I’ve somehow managed to choose partners who did not want what I wanted and did not feel what I felt. Love is a…

Too busy: four words, one big fat lie…

I really need to address an issue that consistently creeps up in relationships or during the “talking” phase. Quick question for the mandem, is it overwhelming for a girl you’re dating or working towards to wanna talk to you all the time ? Or even her sending a short ” thinking about you ” text?…

Wanna fight???!

Today I would like to tackle something conceptually a bit more difficult for a lot of people to grasp. Most relationships have problems every now and then, no two people are ever exactly the same so chances are that sooner or later you will have a communication breakdown, difference of opinion, or you could just…